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In my recent social media scroll, I stumbled upon a profound post from my friend, Megan, that resonated deeply. She expressed a genuine desire to shift the focus of this holiday season from personal desires to serving those around her. Megan's words stirred memories of my own journey with my children into the world of giving, prompting me to share her inspiring story.
Megan, alongside her husband and their five children, ranging from ages 8 to 19, embarked on a heartfelt mission to make Christmas about more than just materialistic “wants.” One and half years ago, their family expanded through adoption, embracing a brother and sister from Ukraine, ages 17 and 19.
When Megan shared with her children her belief that Christmas should emphasize giving rather than receiving, their unanimous agreement set the stage for a beautiful journey. Together, they brainstormed creative ways to serve their community, from assembling care packages for the homeless to actively participating in soup kitchens. Megan's proactive approach involved exploring opportunities where her children could contribute meaningfully, leading them to the Ronald McDonald House, where even the youngest members of the family could help prepare meals.
Megan's youngest expressed a desire to serve at an animal shelter, planning to bring treats for the staff and assist in caring for the animals. As Megan reached out on social media for more ideas, responses poured in from other families, sharing plans to serve at food, diaper, and clothing banks, homeless shelters, and even organizing toy drives. Numerous organizations were mentioned, offering a wealth of opportunities for making a positive impact.
Despite the abundance of suggestions, Megan's primary focus was instilling in her children the understanding that while they couldn't choose the circumstances of their birth, they could choose how to navigate their lives.
“My children lead a privileged life; however, my husband and I want our children to recognize the needs in the community and decide how they will respond,” Megan shared. Breaking the bubble of privilege is a goal for Megan, who wants her children to witness the reality of others in need, whether it's the elderly longing for companionship, children facing abuse, or those getting basic needs met through organizations like Care to Learn.
Megan emphasized the transformative power of time over financial contributions, highlighting the profound perspective gained through hands-on service. Her husband's favorite vacation was not a luxurious getaway but a week spent serving in a Ukrainian orphanage, providing a sense of rest and peace that surpassed worldly comforts.
The family's commitment to service deepened when they met their future children in an orphanage. Megan's future daughter revealed her servant's heart with a heartfelt 15th birthday wish — ensuring all children could attend Vacation Bible School Summer Camp. Over 100 children experienced a joyous camp and heard “the Good News.”
Megan's own tapestry of servanthood was woven in childhood, where her parents exemplified acts of kindness in simple, everyday ways. Their selfless deeds, from buying groceries for struggling families to babysitting children in need, set an extraordinary example of sacrifice for Megan.
Motivated to make a significant impact this Christmas, Megan aims to inspire her family to continue serving throughout the year. She believes in keeping the conversation alive, urging parents to recognize their children's observations and engage in discussions about the needs around them. Megan encourages simple acts of kindness, emphasizing that even a smile can change someone's day.
As Megan's youngest proudly displayed a callus from making a blanket for children at the Child Advocacy Center, her story serves as a poignant reminder. May we all develop calluses from giving and serving, keeping our hands open for opportunities and our words warming the coldest of winter days. May our tapestries of service be woven for generations, telling stories of compassion and kindness.
Thank you, Megan, for your unwavering inspiration!
Local organizations suggested to Megan through social media comments:
- Crosslines
- Victory Mission
- Care to Learn
- Fairbanks
- Missouri Baptist Home
- Ambassadors for Children
- Sammy’s Place
- Rare Breed
- Foster Adopt Connect
- Springfield Dream Center
- Ronald McDonald House
- Freeway Ministry
- Convoy of Hope
- Least of These
